For much of my life, I held an idyllic notion about what it meant to escape the urban hustle—fleeing to the mountains, living a life surrounded by nature, far from the noise, chaos, and stresses of city life. I imagined that the clean air, the tranquility of the trees, and the serene mountain landscapes would be the key to unlocking a peaceful existence. And for a while, when I finally got the opportunity during my master’s studies to live closer to nature, that seemed true. The environment was far less stressful than what I was used to in Delhi, where the air is thick with pollution, and even a ride on the metro after a long day of work leaves you exhausted.
Initially, I found myself completely entranced by the beauty of it all—the fresh air, the sweeping green vistas, and the stillness that wrapped around me like a warm blanket. There’s a certain magic to the mountains that is impossible to deny. Yet, after about a month, I noticed that the euphoria of that first encounter began to fade. The allure of the mountains, though still beautiful, no longer evoked the same deep sense of peace or excitement that I had initially felt.
This didn’t mean I yearned for the stress of the city, the rush of deadlines, or the suffocating metro crowds. But it did spark a deeper realization within me: the idea that life is not about choosing one place over the other, or one environment over another, but about the balance between them. Everything has its own meaning, and for me, moderation is key. I realized that happiness does not come solely from external circumstances—be it the calm of nature or the energy of the city. True fulfillment comes from how we experience and react to the world around us. It’s about the journey inside as much as the one outside.
So often, we chase after things, hoping they will bring lasting happiness—be it a new gadget that promises to revolutionize productivity, a shiny car that captures our attention, or an ideal escape like a mountain retreat. Yes, these things bring moments of joy, a brief surge of excitement, or a temporary boost in motivation, but they do not hold the keys to lasting contentment. While these external factors can improve the quality of life, they are not the core of what life is all about.
For me, this understanding opened the door to my true ikigai, or life’s purpose. I realized that my happiness and fulfillment lie in the process of working on ideas that I am passionate about—ideas that, in my mind, serve a greater purpose than the monotonous grind of daily routine. It’s in the joy and stress of creation, the happiness and relief that come from seeing an idea evolve, the rewards and even the setbacks that shape a legacy, leaving a mark in this vast world.
Life is not about retreating to a solitary space to work on dreams in isolation, only to emerge once they’re polished and complete. It’s about the entire journey—the experiences, the challenges, the people we meet, and the relationships we build along the way. The significance of a project is not just in its completion but in the shared experiences and growth that occur while working toward it.
However, there’s a crucial point to be made here: while personal projects and dreams are essential, they must be approached with the right mindset. Life demands more than fleeting inspiration—it requires dedication, discipline, and consistency to bring those dreams to fruition.
Dedication is what keeps us grounded. It tells us that the work we’re doing matters. It’s the force that drives us to invest time, energy, and resources into our dreams without cutting corners or giving up at the first sign of difficulty. Dedication pushes us to leap over hurdles, not skirt around them. Life, and perhaps even the divine, demands that we give our best effort. No one will hand us success on a silver platter. We have to earn it through our own persistence and dedication.
Discipline sharpens this effort. It’s not about blind flexibility or a lack of hunger. Discipline ensures that our actions align with our goals. If you work hard at something that truly matters, you deserve to see results—either success or the lessons that come from failure. Working without discipline, though, will always leave you empty-handed. It’s this discipline that gives meaning to our endeavors and reflects the sincerity of our intentions.
Finally, consistency is what transforms effort into progress. Many of life’s pursuits don’t require intense, sporadic effort but rather a sustained, steady commitment. Some goals demand that you show up every day, even when the task feels repetitive or when the outcome seems distant. It’s about keeping your head down and giving your best, over and over again, without constantly questioning your purpose.
Through this understanding, I have come to learn some valuable lessons about the true meaning of life:
- Money matters, but not in the way we often think. It’s crucial in shaping your quality of life and relationships, but working solely for money is shortsighted. Instead, work for the experiences and opportunities that financial stability provides. Money is not the goal but a tool to help achieve a more meaningful and enriched life.
- Live in the moment. Whether you’re working hard or enjoying a mountaintop view, immerse yourself fully. Constantly comparing your situation to others or worrying about what’s next robs you of the beauty in the present.
- Embrace the struggle. Hard work is a constant in life, but it’s also what gives meaning to our rewards. A view from the top of the mountain is sweeter if you’ve earned it through effort, not simply taken a shortcut. The value of any reward is amplified by the hard work required to attain it.
- Action outweighs strategy, but both are essential. You can have the best-laid plans, but without action, they remain dreams. However, action without strategy is like wandering without direction—neither approach works alone.
In the end, life is not defined by where you are—the city or the mountains—but by how you engage with the world around you. It’s the passion you pour into your work, the relationships you build, and the experiences you savor. Balance, hard work, and living with purpose are the true ingredients of a fulfilled life. The mountains may lose their initial magic, but the meaning you find in life, forged through dedication, discipline, and consistency, will never fade.
